there is a saying goes，“life without a friend is a life without a sun”，that isto say，friendship is indispensable to peoples life.
friendship is to our life what salt is to dasher. when you are happy friendship is just like adding flowers on the brocade; when you are sad friendship is a dose of consolation; if you are in trouble friends will surround you and remove the barriers for you; if you have a hard nut to crack you can turn to friends for help.
every one need friends and if you fail to make friends you should examine yourself and see if there is something wrong with your personality. maybe you have social faults such snobbishness talkativeness and using slang etc. all of that will drive your new acquaintances. whatever your social faults may be look at them honestly and make real effort to correct them.
however what’s actual difficult is that friendship is easier made than kept.there are several important elements necessary to maintain a good friendship.
listen .the ability to really listen to another is a cornerstone of good friendship.it helps you to understand your friend and his/her feelingsas well as shows that you really care.
spend quality time with your friend .no relationship can be satisfying without quality time spend together.make time for your friendschedule get together.
in short when we have established friendship we ought to cherish and treasure it by means of words and deeds. only thus can we develop real friendship and keep the sacred lamp of friendship burning all our life.
有句谚语说，“人生没有了朋友就犹如失去了阳光”这也就是说，友谊对人的生活是不可缺少的。
友谊是我们的生活中的调味品。当你快乐的时候，友谊就像是盛开的鲜花，展现在你面前，当你可悲时，友谊是一剂安慰;如果您遇到了麻烦，朋友们将会出现并帮你解除困难，如果你有一个难办的事，您可以找朋友获得帮助。
每个人都需要朋友，如果你不能交到朋友，就该反省自己，看是否的你的个性有什么问题。或许你有些在社交上应该避讳的缺点：譬如势力、饶舌、说脏话等等。这些都会妨碍你结交新朋友。无论你有什么社交缺点，都应该正视它们，并努力改正。
然而，真正困难的是：友谊容易得到却不易保持。要想维持友谊以下几方面是必不可少的了。
善于倾听。倾听是友谊的基石它有助于你更好的了解你的朋友同时又表示你在关心你的朋友。
勇于承认自己的错误.朋友相处迟早都会产生冲突的但产生误会和冲突时双方都是有责任的我认为勇于承认自己的过错比追究责任更有助于解决问题和增进友谊。
简言之，建立了友谊之后，要通过言语和行动来珍惜友谊，像爱护宝物一样爱惜友谊。只有这样，才能发展真正的友谊，让神圣的友谊之灯照亮我们一生。
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