Friend
No matter in which era, friend is tend to be the most important part of our life. There are billions of strange people we could meet everyday, but only a few of them we have a chance to talk with, and it seems we just have really tiny probability to be friends with them. Therefore, those people who talk, play, and stay with us have a coincident name, and we call it friend. If we classify our friends more specific, then we find that we will have three types of friends in our life.
The first type of friend is normal friend. These people could be our classmates or someone you know him/her before, but have a long time not contact each other. For this type of friend, we can chat with them, we can go out with them and also we can study or work with them, but we just don’t tell our secret and say something from our heart. The reason for that is because we don’t trust them that much, and we also don’t know them well. The insecurity feeling lead both of us feel that we can’t say to much to this person, because I don’t know him very well. Finally, we become a normal friend, and we can go shopping, do work together but we just can’t always help each other and have a heart to heart talk.
On the second type of friend, sometimes we might not call them a truly friend . It is because those type of people would never come into your daily life. The only thing they might do is they will call you when they go to the party, and have some
conversation without any meaning, something looks like how rich he is or he buy a really expensive car, how much he spends on that. If you need some help from them, they might have one thousands kind of reasons to refuse you. Also, they won’t really care about your feelings. The relationship between us and them just same as a playmate, and this kinds of people are usually change really quick, because they are hardly to make a real friend.
For the third type of friend, I would like to say that it is really hard to meet with them, and if we have one or two of this kinds of friends, we should thank the god. Usually, we call these people the best friend. As I said before, we can have a lot of friends, but we only have really tiny probability to have a best friend. What is a best friend? It should be include he or she can forgive your everything, something look like always pull you out from the dark, help you, and stay with you no matter what happens. We can fully lay down our guard and say whatever we want to say and do whatever we want to do, but just make sure don’t say or do something hurt someone’s feeling. Sometimes we could find out that your best friend is similar as a family member, and they will never betrayal us, just same as we will never do something hurt them.
However, the friendship needs to be maintain. If we don’t contact with them, the relationship will be estrangement and this is not the way we used for friendship. On other words, friend is someone who can help you and trust you. It should be a person who can share happiness and sadness, not a person who just want a playmate and drink with him. We must polish our eyes when we establish a friendship, stay away
from those evil friends, don’t say everything to someone who you don’t know well, and cherish your best friend. And a positive friendship could help both of us and create a better life. Words: 650
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